When you find the answer, let me know… I’ve no idea. Been looking around my area for meetup events, other events, looked for LAN parties or tournaments in my area—and I can’t find anything anymore. The pandemic closed so much crap that might’ve been around before but now there’s like legit nothing. Used to be a part of a few Discord servers but only worth it really when they’re small but I keep seeing them close down due to drama. I don’t like getting into fandoms and I don’t want to make my hobby my life—I have other things I like doing. Like you op, idk how tf I’m supposed to meet people let alone a potential partner while a lot of the things I like don’t seem to harbor accessible spaces…

Julia Stiles. Saw her in Save the Last Dance and some other movie and absolutely could not get on with the movie. It’s like she’s not acting or doesn’t know how to act. She’s kind of like in audition mode the entire time and I just don’t get anything from her face or her actions. I sometimes get the same thing from Keanu but at least I like the movies he’s in. With her I just rage quit 5 min in seeing her. She just ruins it for me. Also yes, also don’t like The Rock. I’m sure we saw the same YouTube vid where the guy bashes on him for not knowing how to act as any other “character”… which when looking back, it’s true. He’s literally the same persona every god damn time.