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11·3 hours agoSince apparently I keep getting shit for not doing basic searches for an easy to find topic, here.
Think what you want, you’re free to look it up or not. I don’t really care. I made an observation if yall want to follow it up or not. I’m not having a debate over this
I’m not getting bogged down in an argument picking apart my source because someone made up their mind already. Plenty to choose from it’s a well-trodden subject. Find a journal or outlet you respect.
There have been plenty of reputable studies that show parents need to stop being casually naked in front of their children by a certain age. Usually 5/6 IIRC. Otherwise it causes a lot of confusion for the kids as they start to develop sexually and become more curious about their own genitals. They don’t know how to tease out the difference between “I like how that person looks “and “that’s my mom.”
If you’re trying to actually understand the subject, I would encourage you to look at some of those studies. Not that this isn’t a worthwhile exercise I don’t really know what you’re up to so it may be exactly what you need. But if you’re looking for real answers, I would start there
Edit: since people are whining and downvoting instead of doing a 5s cursory search:
Now you’re trying too hard.
I’m going to move on. All flippant bullshit aside, you really need to not give a shit about people’s tattoos. If you don’t want them, don’t get them. But you sound like a conservative suburban mom from the 90s with the way you talk about them. Stop giving a shit what other people do when it doesn’t have even the slightest impact on you. If you can’t do that, then yeah, you’re as bad as US Republicans. And that’s a pretty shitty thing to be right now.
I’m not the one being weird about tattoos. If you don’t like them, don’t get them. But to go online and talk about “pristine skin” is fucking weird dude. You’re fucking weird. You got some sort of skin thing? You gonna talk about how pure your blood is too?
You didn’t say you don’t like tattoos. You are welcome to not like them and not get them yourself. I don’t have them either.
Would you say that is simply what your comments above indicate? That you prefer not to have tattoos on your own body?
Judging people for what they do even though it doesn’t impact you in the slightest and telling people what they should/shouldn’t do with their body? Sounds like a Republican to me. Your line about skin was the weird addition to put you over the finish line.
Feel like he’s about to start mumbling about Clarice
You don’t have to be a resident of eagle land to be republican weird.
stop being weird. You’re not the fun weird. You’re being Republican weird.
Don’t have one but please keep talking
Really the only sensible comment in this thread
No but being a judgmental prick sure is
I think one of the bigger misunderstandings of why people get tattoos is that they do it “because they will love the image forever.“ It’s more useful to think of it as a snapshot, a permanent time capsule that you can always look at. So yeah, you don’t want to get something you will truly hate to look at later, But your taste evolves and there is a bit of an art to getting something that you will still look back on fondly. Like a poem you wrote in high school that still makes you smile, even if you’re a much better writer now.
Ask people about their tattoos and you’ll often hear them say “I got it because I liked how it looked.” It was that simple. Especially if it’s not their first tattoo.
Varies wildly. I’m in a US state for instance that doesn’t require you to inform the other party.
…Dwight?
I guess it doesn’t bug me so much because it’s not so cringe and actually clearly communicates the point. We do in-house video editing at the company I work at, and when we talk about scaling we’re talking about making sure our processes hold when we add more and more people and increase our volume. It’s a growing company so I have to constantly talk about anticipating and buying things to make sure we don’t run into a wall with our growth.
I guess this is less pushing back and more asking what word you would rather see?
Notice the studies almost always cap at 6. I say “almost” out of caution, I have always seen it as 5 or 6.